Integrating Feelings: Dealing with Bullies

Bullies can be scary for children of all ages. They may not know that it is okay to talk with an adult. By reading stories like the following to children, it might create a conversation of a time they were bullied or when a friend is/has been bullied. One thing that I deal with weekly and will not tolerate are bullies. Throughout the year, I have books that I read to my students to remind them how to stand up to bullies and also recognize when bullies are scared themselves of feeling left out. My oldies but goodies: How to handle when a bully frightens you or makes fun of the way you speak.

When a bully makes fun of your size- something you cannot change. When recess is not a fun place to play because one person ruins it for everyone. And a new favorite, when and how to talk with a grown up: Of course, there are picture books and many would think that they are just for primary age children, but they send the message to all ages. For more books and resources about bullies visit, Embracing the Child, which also leads you to wonderful links such as The Ophelia Project and Stop Bullying now.

Even if your child is not being bullied, there is a chance that they might BE the bully. Reading these books might help them reflect on their actions before it is too late.